Ideally you should have a community consensus already such as via forum or blog post with overall view of implementing abuse filter, then go to Special:Contact/general on your wiki.

However to just accomplish the task you describe, it may not be enabled for that reason - abuse filter is usually enabled on wikis with lots of daily edits, even more so on wikis with a history of vandalism.

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