Thread:NedWolfkin/@comment-9041013-20210125232911

Hey, so I've decided to message you after all this shitstorm been brewing for a while now. I know you banned my alt from the lolpasta server because duh I am not there anymore so I figured let's talk. Whether you will read this or not is up to you. I'm gonna start up with an apology for you, for whatever I said about you - spending some time in your server, I learned you're not such a bad guy. You're still kind of weird for picking on newer and younger authors who you think suck at writing but that's not so bad. I'm sorry for accusing you of banning me "cause you hate me lolz", I'm sorry for acting like you're a massive dickhead. You're clearly not. You're alright.

I thought you had banned me because first I get that message about "potentially starting drama" and then I couldn't comment on any page I went too after that and the comments were gone too. I guess I've mistaken a glitch or something for you banning me. My bad. You don't seem that power hungry as I initially thought, so that's definitely me misreading the situation, once again, my apologies.

Now I'd like to address the elephant in the room, the allegation(s). The word grooming is being thrown around a lot along with "strong evidence", people outside of the community have seen the evidence and the responses ranged from "meh it's not that bad" to "the language was inappropriate" to "where is the rest? Grooming has an end-goal". So yeah, my mistake was using adult language around a sixteen year old, this much I'll admit. I misjudged the situation between us (which i assure you was merely friendly) I looked at the girl as an equal in terms of maturity and let myself speak to her in an inappropriate tone at points. I've apologized for that publically and I've no qualms in admitting this was a mistake. I know you see Slimebeast as a sort of an ally, and even he said that I "didn't groom her but was kind of creepy"

I know you've seen some screenshots of conversations between us, I'm pretty sure I've seen the majority if not all of them. And as far as I know, they're lacking in context and cropped very deliberately by someone. I'm pretty sure nobody showed you full convos where the girl had sent me photos on her accord for whatever reason she had in mid conversation about unrelated stuff. Oh and yeah, I've said stuff like "you're cute", "you're pretty" etc. That's more of a common courtesy though (especially since at least once she's sent me a photo saying stuff like "look how cute"). I've seen how unsure you are as to whether the screenshots you have can lead to something bigger so that's why I am asking you to get a hold of screenshots of either me trying to sext her, asking to meet her, asking for NSFW photos or anything of that sort (Me saying we both look the same age without following up with anything of adult nature doesn't count, from what I've seen and if I'm correct, you don't even have the rest of that convo). So while you may think I'm a groomer and probably a bunch of other stuff, I assure you I'm not. Moreover, I implore you to seek more damning evidence against me which I would then love to then see.

Mind you the girl said she wasn't the one who accused me of grooming her (in the original screenshot spread around she said "our conversations were weird") even though she's admitted to me that she dated an adult almost a year ago who according to her displayed "grooming behaviors" she also said I have "multiple allegations against me" which are what allegations exactly? Said adult was banned from the server in which they met and that was seemingly it as far as I know, which is uhhh... kinda fucked up. Also, she admitted to me that adults in her life pretty much cross a bunch of lines with her (a child) and nothing is done about this, which is again... kinda of all sorts of fucked up.

Sure there's also other shit but it was taken care of either recently or two years ago (that whole "Bloody trolled people with faking suicide, which I didn't... I was in a shitty head space at the time, behaved poorly and later corrected myself and the issue was resolved in the next day, never repeated again and forgotten about by all parties involved until someone dug out the corpse of this abomination out of its grave for the sake of "look how bad BloodySpghetti is")

I don't mind if you don't believe me, but I do wish you keep looking at this case through an analytic lens and get to your conclusions eventually using your head. We might never become friends or anything, but I'll admit this much - I respect you for your ability to admit your mistakes and learn from them (ala fixing the blogpost on lolpasta).

Anyhow, have a nice day.  