Thread:X-Mutant/@comment-36009152-20181122161511

Hey buddy : ) As I said, here’s a break down of what could have been better, read this thoroughly, this will help you:

The ban reason given was for homophobia, saying “When someone is into gay marriage or supporting it that means that they don’t care or value life.” the equivalent is something like “When someone is into straight marriage or supporting it that means that they just want to breed like rabbits and produce babies they can’t care for in an already vastly overpopulated world, they don’t care or value life.” Do you see how absurd the two terms are? It’s rude towards people of each respective orientation, blanket statements are never a good idea, saying X+Y= this bizarre and crude example, and it’s just out of place on a wiki where you’re there to support a series. Moving forward it’s better to leave these rude statements behind forever.

Regarding insight from Youtube comments if you saw someone say:

“Some people have said in comments that having kids is boring and that a man and woman being together is boring, (and that a man and a man together is boring). And that is not right to say something like that"

Opinions, on Youtube. They can be said if they want, but should they be grounds for disliking people? If you came across a handful of random comments somewhere along the lines of “I’m straight and we don’t want kids” would it be right to make generalisations and say like “I saw a heterosexual say they don’t want children aren’t they awful I'm not heterophobic it’s just the truth.”

It’s important to understand you may not see anything wrong with your comments, but others could recognise them for what they really are. The Youtube comments aren’t important, here on Fandom an admin called you out with sanctions, and Fandoms terms of use could have also been called upon. See the user conduct section specifically?

Since I know you’re better than that, you’ve shown yourself to be kind, never again should you make rude generalisations about people. Neither should you use a few random comments you found on Youtube/anywhere as justification for prejudiced views, these two wrongdoings needs to be understood and replaced with better nicer views.

Certain comments directed at you may be viewed as not nice but that’s no excuse to say something not nice in return. Besides you wouldn’t want to turn into a reflection of them, ensure you remain a decent person. Opinions change all the time, may have changed the second after something has been posted, or the person may not themselves believe what they write, or maybe they really do, that’s fine it’s not capable of hurting you.

As I say lengths were taken to intervene on your behalf where the outcome now is after the ban you can return to the site. In this case the admin was there to help the wiki, it is their duty to look after it and with the tone and direction of your conversation, well you didn’t even want that, why have that when there’s better available? This new scenario where you can prepare articles, content, gather images that would look nice ready to add to support the series you like is better than the scenario where you could be banned infinitely, or indeed across the Fandom wikis for said conduct. If you feel someone is giving you grief, be the better person and walk away, you owe them nothing, you are not their to argue, you are there to enjoy yourself on the wikis themselves. Focus on what matters you deserve to be happy and shouldn’t settle for anything less.

Focus solely on this positive news, your head should not be turned for anything else. A small candle of light is better than all the dark bad news in the world. That admin could have made the case to ban you infinitely for what are unquestionably sketchy views towards people. Sure is a good thing I’ve got your back and I know it was a misunderstanding and that you won’t do it again.

This is why I helped you and successfully achieved this better outcome for you. Chin up and progress where you can. 