Thread:Sannse/@comment-31881386-20200512143807/@comment-1038387-20200512150257

I don't want to get involved on contents, but damaging one's self-esteem is not something anyone can decide except the subject.

However, just because your self-esteem was damaged by something someone said, doesn't make that person bad or breaking any rules. They gave you a stern talking to; they felt you needed it, or maybe they just needed to get it off their chest.