User blog:Darytyg123123/Don't seek vengence, never seek retrebution, only seek peace.

Hello everybody, my name is Darytyg and after a long while of not writing blog posts, I decided to write something about a issue that has plagued my life for the past three years of my life. We all hear the saying,"revenge is necessary", but I would like to write this to say revenge is not necessary and retribution for what others have done to you is not the answer to solving your problems.

Life is harsh and life batters us, we always experience hurt in our lives and people are always there to wreck it for us, and somewhere another is willing to hurt us in order to make our lives horrible and unbearable. You always think that if I act against that person, that I would be free of the hurt he/she has giving me, that I would have finished the pain caused to me. Well let me tell you this, the hurt doesn't go away with revenge, pain is long lasting and takes time to heal, nothing will slow down the process of hurt, it is something you as a person must get rid of yourself, in order for you to be free of the pain. You can beat yourself up, attack the person or do all sorts of things in the similar nature again and again, it won't do anything at all but build up hatred and anger inside of your body and this anger will consume you and eventually control you if you don't stop it and when the anger controls you, you become a different person, someone you are not, something you wish you had never become, a vengeful being controlled by anger and who will stop at nothing to exact his/her revenge on another and once that is done feels that they have done there duty towards the other person and feels that the anger has ended and they can return to there normal lives as the person they once were before this person hurt them and made them into the demon seeking revenge. But the damage will be done then and returning is harder than you actually know, it is difficult to let go of the anger at that point, and fortunately for me I had amazing people like Josephyr, Constable Huxley Murray, my parents and many others who eventually made me realize how wrong I was and how wrong my vengeance seeking was, I then began to go on a path of forgiveness and peace, I no longer clinged to the past and seeked peace and let go of my anger. This is something you can do and will do if you let go of your anger. Life is too short to consume this hatred, and if we can let go of this anger, then we will become human beings that seek peace upon vengeance, love upon hatred and best of all we learn to love life for what it is and not for what it has done to us.

So I encourage all of you that are consumed by anger to let it go, you may find this task a very hard and impossible thing to do, but trust me if you do this you will find a life worth living and find yourself again in the process.

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Darytyg