Thread:Sannse/@comment-3088201-20140108165624/@comment-8-20140108210321

I usually look at my messages once a day (twice if I can) and I answer them in roughly the order they are left. So I usually get to them within 24 hours. Of course it may be longer, especially if I don't check at weekends, and it's definitely very rare that I get to a specific message in 2 hours!

Nikolai: you've left a lot of complicated thoughts, here and on other pages, so I'm not sure I can answer well enough in a thread like this. But I'm happy to talk to you on chat, if you see me in there. I'm usually around in the mornings Pacific time (but again, it can vary).

One thing I will say here though - Ceadeus' advice to give more time is good, but it's also worth remembering that sometimes no reply is also a reply. I suspect some people have read the post, and thought "I'm not upset by the past, and have nothing to add here" and moved on. Others, as Ceadeus said, don't follow blogs much. Overall it's not a matter of not caring or not forgiving, it's probably more about your concern about the past making it a bigger and more worrying thing than it is for others.

But, as I said, I may not be saying this as clearly as I want to... so if you would like to talk on chat, you are welcome to PM me.