Thread:TheAmericanDream/@comment-25328337-20151011212157/@comment-26267037-20151012071222

Callofduty4 wrote: TheAmericanDream wrote: You. Are. Faking. Omf what don't you understand. I KNOW for a FACT you're faking. People who fake mental disorders usually do it for attention, which is what you are doing, and have admitted to. It's disgusting. I don't give a flying flapjack what's going on in your life.

TheAmericanDream wrote: Get this in your thick skull. We know you're fake. Don't educate on me disorders. You don't have one, stop weaseling your way into it. The only thing you have is an immature thirst for attention.

Whether or not you think this is true, you do not know anything about That1Girl's situation, nor do you know anything about how she feels, or any of the reasons that she behaves in the way she does. You don't. Don't say you do. You don't, and you never will.

The way you have treated a user who clearly has a strong interest and desire to be on your website that you claim to represent is appalling and truthfully it's upsetting to watch. It's a shame, because the only reason you think the way you are and say the things you're saying is because you can't seem to wrap your mind around the possibility that maybe That1Girl is telling the truth.

Would that absolve her of any blame? No. But maybe you'd reconsider the way in which you have dealt with this situation. The most "disgusting" thing out of all of this is the way in which you have told another human being that what they feel is invalid and that they are nothing but "fake". When you know nothing about what may or may not be going on in their life outside of Wikia.

TheAmericanDream wrote: I am grown up.

Glad to hear. If that's true, then show that off next time you encounter a situation which involves you blocking a user.

Well, here we go..

1. There was only a few select people that Echo felt comfortable relaying her situation to, myself being one of them and honestly, I can't quite describe it. It seemed that if I was trying to help, things would get worse. Whether this was for attention or if she legitimately had mental health issues, I'll never know

2. @Callofduty4: Yes, this user has a strong desire to be on the wiki, but she continually has a history of breaking wiki policies (swearing, spam etc.) If she had the truest desire to be on the site, she would have realized her mistakes and changed her attitude, but that never occurred. Put it into perspective: If you had a user on a wiki that continually broke policies and consistently got banned, but begged for second chances, yet never changed, you'd probably feel Tyler's frustration as well.

3. It's true that people don't know everything about everyone outside of Wikia, but there is a reason that Wikia allows people over 13 to join their site, because they have the necessary maturity to be on these sights. We all make mistakes in dealing with situations, and sometimes we snap and make mistakes. But it does not mean we are not grown up enough to maturely make these types of decisions together as a collective community. Part of being a member of Wikia is having maturity, which is something at times that this member of our community lacked.

There's my speech. Hasta la vista peeps.

.*drops the mic*