Thread:Pinkgirl234/@comment-24200325-20171108160747/@comment-25648422-20171111051239

Fine.

You want my answer? Well, have it. But I believe this would shock you, as it's going to be a harsh one. So be prepared.

I already made it clear before that I do not really consider anyone I just met online as someone to be my best friend. As in anyone I just met online. I can only have best friends with people who I only meet in real life.

Just so you know, I know a user who declined someone's request to be someone's friend because for him, he only considers people he has met in real life to be friends. And I have no problem with that! To me, that user is someone I can still call a friend considering he is one of the decent people I have met online. He knows me and I know him. We get along and are in good terms.

But you weren't satisfied with me seeing you as just my "friend"! You had to insist. Like I mentioned before, I can only consider someone I have met in real life as my best friend. I asked that you respect that. Not everyone you meet online and then ask to be your best friend will agree to be your best friend. You have to remember that. But the way you insist, it is like I am obliged to be your best friend. It's like I am required to be your best friend.

I'm sorry but you do not force someone to be your best friend. It's not your decision. Becoming one's best friend is the choice of the one who will decide if that person will be their best friend or not.

As for when I said, "I'm not even gonna discuss this.", it is because I have asked you already not to bring it up AGAIN. It's tiring that you have to bring it up again and again.

Now on to the next point.

I honestly didn't have a problem with you wanting to visit me in real life some day at first. However, some of the things you said just caused me to become suspicious of you. I'm gonna listed down some of the things you have you said:
 * "please do cooperate with what I have planned"
 * "Well, I told you to please cooperate. That's just a simple task."
 * "hopefully you would fulfill my plans"

Excuse me? Who do you think I am? I'm not some pawn who is meant to be used "fulfill" someone's purposes or plans. Not to mention, you, no offense, but the way you said those words, just makes you come off as really creepy. And I don't like that.

You're also wrong when you said this: I have planned to visit you IRL, for the sake for becoming best friend with you, because you wanted it much. Who placed that thought in your head? I never said anything about wanting it much.

Also... Do not interrupt me from doing this. Even if my plan is fulfilled, you better fulfill and respect my wishes. Let me stop you RIGHT THERE. Instead of saving up money to travel to another place to meet someone who does not want to meet you in real life, better yet, use the money for all your personal needs. Like your groceries, your clothes, paying bills, etc.

You read that right. I do not want to see you in real life. I do not want to meet someone who tries to force me to comply to someone's selfishness. That's not the kind of person I want to meet in real life.

So if I were you, don't even bother anymore. Don't bother pushing it. Don't even dare to push it.

Overall, you're literally threatening me. Threatening me to comply to your requests for the sake of maintaining the friendship between us. That's not what a friend is supposed to do. You do not threaten someone in order to keep a friendship. That's just plain wrong and foolish to do.

For several weeks, I had adjusted for YOUR SAKE. But now, I am no longer adjusting for you. Not anymore. I finally had enough.

You crossed the line. I never knew you would go this far. And I'm disappointed in you.

This is the final straw. I'm done with this. And I'm done with you. I have better things to do than deal with something like this.

Goodbye.