Thread:Sannse/@comment-27026386-20160326065925/@comment-8-20160329224258

Thank you for your concern :) that's really nice of you.

I do believe though that insults don't matter. Either someone is hurting and so lashing out, in which case I want to try and fix that hurt (although I can't always do so). Or someone is trying to hurt me, which they can't do unless I let their words affect me.

I'm not 100% immune to that hurt of course, I'm human (despite what some who have insulted me have said). And I'm not saying that it doesn't matter whether a conversion is riddled with insults or not... talking together without insults is much more productive than with them! But I'm really not going to get upset about someone I don't know saying mean things about me in a chat I'll never see on a wiki I don't go to :)