Board Thread:Support Requests - Community Management/@comment-3225604-20130825093750/@comment-4189499-20130825120629

If you believe this user is doing the wrong thing in general, you should start a forum post or a blog asking for other's opinions on the situation with this user in general. If it's just this one time, communicate with the user and discuss the problem. After all, they are only human. However, if this is a regular occurrence, and other users on your wiki believe that this user is abusing their powers, you can send a special:contact message to Wikia along with a link to the forum/blog where this user is being discussed and it is possible for Wikia to strip them of their rights. However, you should aim to talk to this user calmly about the situation first. One good tip to make sure you don't sound too accusing or demanding is to read your message out loud to yourself first. After having a brief look at your interactions on that wiki, you do seem to be a bit aggressive, and comparing somebody to a North Korean dictator isn't usually a good way to open up a friendly conversation that ends in you getting your way. Also, it seems you have vented your frustrations everywhere except to the user directly on their message wall. My advice, drop them a message (calmly) asking them to explain their reasoning in the situation, and then wait for them to reply instead of venting elsewhere. Continue conversing in a civil manner without falling to insults. If they explain their reasoning calmly and clearly, maybe it will give you an understanding of why this has occurred and can lead you to become a better editor yourself in the future. If you disagree, you can inform them of why that is and maybe they'll see your side. If they instead leave a rude, unreasonable reply, you may want to take things further as I mentioned above. But communication is the key to getting along and making both your editing experiences better. And try not to let the full extent of your frustrations show. Despite your anger, a reasonable conversation will more likely occur if you initiate it in a friendly manner.