Thread:Seth Cooper/@comment-26102182-20180921032538

Hi Seth! (Though I super belatedly realized you have an AKA Rick M.; do you prefer to be called Rick instead?)

You're probably wondering why I'm writing to you from CC instead of HPW; well, let's just say sadly I don't feel comfortable enough to do so there. In fact, I'm not even comfortable enough to do it here, which is why this post is just me asking you if there's other ways. My Twitter handle can be found on my user page, and my Goodreads account can be found on the link shown as "My Website" on my user page as well. If you happen to have either of those two accounts but don't feel like sharing here, is it possible for your to PM me so there's a way to converse in private?

If not, that's totally fine, too. I've been debating on this for a while; in the end, it's not some life-altering thing since it's just stuff on Wikia, and I've contemplated on simply ignoring what's bothering me. Most of the time I've managed to do that, but a lot of the times, I feel like what was said to me also very successfully indicated that I was the unreasonable, stupid, and hostile one, and the one at fault. It's just, really not a good feeling. So I wanted another person's opinion on how to handle the situation in the future should it unfortunately happen again. I didn't think outright refusing to respond would be polite, but I honestly think my cells die so much for those discussions that I really want to prevent it.

Again, if you don't have either of those account, or want to keep them private, I totally understand and will drop it. Should that be the case though, could you drop a short message on my wall so that I can remove this thread? The last thing I want is for people to think I'm talking about them, and even if I am actually talking about them, that's my personal concern, but leaving it open for them to potentially respond to (when that's exactly the problem) just doesn't seem like a good idea. Hence, the need of removing the trace.

Hope you have a good day/night! 