Thread:Sannse/@comment-25059297-20140825153431/@comment-303594-20140825171302

Private Messages can't be moderated. We simply can't see them. If you have a problem in a PM - the only advice we can give is to block them.

This also means that you can feel free to talk about whatever you both want in PM, you're not under the same restrictions as the main chat (check with the other person that it's ok if it's a sensitive topic, or they might block you).