Thread:AuthenticDiaries/@comment-3993839-20131110025021/@comment-3993839-20131110035326

Sorry about the age thing then, it was just a curiosity thing.

I don't know what you consider important. But, I do consider this whole issue important. Okay, can I try to give you some advice without you becoming mad at me?

If you have all this stress in your life, cut down on the stuff you have online (or stuff you have in real life, your choice of course). It's not good. I have myself cut down on a lot, including my positions at many wikis (like I now quit trying Star-Crossed). When you are an admin/founder of a wiki you will get into disputes like this again. Because as this is a wiki, everyone has their right to speak their mind in a civil manner without getting blocked or banned etc because that does fall under abusing of rights. That only includes blocking/banning/kicking or such for no apparent reason or rule break. Of course every situation is different, but since a dispute like this causes you this much stress, you should rather cut down on it. You have a choice, you know.

As some say "pick your battles". This one is now done and over because I've simply deiced to drop the whole thing because I want to reduce stress in my life. It's simply not worth it.

But, if you do keep on doing all the stuff that's so stressful, you can't use it as an excuse when disputes and arguments come up, because it is your choice to keep going. You're the one causing the stress when you decide to add to one already stressful life, you can't blame it on others. You also choose to put yourself in a position (founder/bureaucrat) where it is you people will come to if there is a problem with the wiki.

And, I wasn't accusing you, I was just telling you what the head-admin's/bureaucrat's duties are. There's a difference.

I hope you take it under consideration if you can understand what I'm trying to tell you.