Thread:Love Robin/@comment-45385034-20200501160938/@comment-366087-20200514200501

It is true one cannot control if they are gay or homophobic. BUT they CAN control how much they *express* those traits in public. Otherwise there would be little need for people to "come out of the closet".

One can have phobias/fears of things and not constantly express them. Usually by doing all they can to *avoid* placing themselves in positions where those phobias are prevalent and able to overwhelm them. Claustrophobics either avoid elevators or can dampen down their impulses as long as the thing is moving so they don't feel trapped because they can tell themselves those doors will open and they can exit at any time…

So in short, there is nothing wrong with being gay or homophobic.

Yet, like with anything, there *can be* a problem with openly expressing certain things depending on How, Where, When, and to Whom you do so…