Thread:X-Mutant/@comment-36009152-20181122161511/@comment-36009152-20181125144035

Hi, here it does seem there has been another instance of misinterpreting!

It’s not about what I think, every point has been showing that the reason you were banned was because of homophobia. The admin, indeed anyone could point to your statements such as "When someone is into gay marriage or supporting it that means that they don't care or value life" along with other remarks and state that you were being prejudiced with what would be seen as crude comments. But we’ve already established you didn’t mean them and you’ve moved on right?

It’s fine to think both parties are wrong in a topic, right now wouldn’t you rather put your time and effort in doing something that makes you happy rather than something that doesn’t? No need to untangle what you see as a knot, simply leave it behind for something better. Similarly if you do feel someone is being a “jerk” remember what we said how you are better than calling people names? I would suggest not even focusing on that, instead since you're here read and enjoy the wikis.

It’s understandable your points about the changes in society’s views. I guess people can ‘accuse’ you of being straight or gay, for whatever reason. Just be patient with them if they like to point at things and exclaim that they are gay/straight. Just to be clear though you’re not being attacked. If someone feels an unusual compulsion to call you gay or straight or anything just be there for that precious person. If someone feels you are holding prejudiced towards certain people say nicer things instead to show this isn’t the case.

That’s the one, the conversation with the admin shows the efforts I went to on your behalf to ensure you can return to the site after the ban expires. There, don’t you feel that was a much better way of sorting through issues? There was lots of laughter, can you see it was a very nice way of resolving the conflict for you? Rather than tensions and misunderstandings there was the right kind of discussions. Also you would note how there was indeed a misunderstanding of the good cop there too (on the Zootopia wiki had to make a cop reference haha) but see how the misunderstanding was instantly clarified to get right back on track with a more polite way of interacting with others? It is a little confusing if you do feel that I think you’re easy to walk over when I’ve been beside you and helping you at every turn. Even if I wanted to I wouldn’t walk over you, or anyone for that matter.

It’s all right if you can’t find people like you since everyone’s unique remember, and if opposites attract find people like that. I will point out you get along very well with your family and animals so that’s good right? Never mind about the other kids or people giving you looks for doing the right things, it’s a sinister ploy to make you sink to that level but it won’t work.

It’s not really about a true face, I was friendly and civil with the admin and yourself with the goal of helping move on from this block. That helps both you and the wikis you like to be on.

With the R.D.R wiki bear in mind that different wikis have different rules that work for them. Sure you may have good intentions but from the admins point of view they know what is best to help manage the sites they run.

Regarding your trust in me, have I let you down so far with my guidance and ensuring that you are able to return to the wiki? Like I said above maybe it’s better to laugh these things off, always remain polite and all the better since you benefit.

If the bureaucrat saw your messages with you swearing and calling them names, would they think you have changed for the better? If you were looking after a wiki and you came across someone calling you that word would you want them on your wiki? Remember you are better than that language.

You have your olive branch in your return offer, and if these messages help you change for the better (other people aren’t really relevant it’s about you). Do you have your answer? I put in quite an effort to ease the tensions for you with the result you can return to the site. I continue to provide help and be there for you with messages.

Ultimately when it comes right down to it maybe you should be contemplating how you can leave things better than you found them. Since you are on the Zootopia and Red Dead Redemption wikis perhaps you could question which pages need improving, indeed which one you should watch or play first and enjoy yourself there.