Thread:CHIDIEStar15/@comment-24260217-20190925084708/@comment-25651207-20191005052149

CHIDIEStar15 wrote: I’m so tired of seeing this type of message someone sent me. My therapist does understand me and he had to take it seriously by calling a psychiatrist to help me more with my problem. And don’t say I’m a bad person, you’re making me look bad. I know a user here on FANDOM who is always having anger issues that resulted her getting blocked from every Wiki she had lashed out with her aggressive behavior. Her name is Amelia411. That reminds me, I must contact someone about Amelia that also knows her, but I’m right now going out to dinner as my dad’s celebration of getting a new car. Stay put! I apologize to intrude on your conversation but as a fellow random concerned individual who has had similar issues with admins on wikis in the far past, I think honestly Emmaelise is right, and you should take maybe a break from contributing to FANDOM for a month or two.

On another wiki which you've probably never heard of (this happened a few years ago), I was promoted to a chat moderator, but later lost my position due to having an outburst over being kicked from a chat session. At first, I blamed the opposing team entirely, even though I was fully to blame for what happened. I was so angry that I just automatically ended up leaving that community and FANDOM (at the time known as WIKIA) for an entire month or two.

When I finally felt like I had cooled down and my life had taken a turn for the better, I returned to the site and apologized for my misdemeanors. I was forgiven but obviously not promoted again, and it was really a turning point. I continued to contribute there for a long while (until sheer boredom convinced me to stop).

The point I'm making is when I also had issues with the staff of certain communities, when I took a break it gave me time to think and to relax, and then I came back to the community with a whole new attitude, so I personally believe you should take a break from FANDOM for around the same length of time and just find some time to think about why you've been having so many issues with so many people and maybe straighten things out in your life.

I want to make it clear that this is just my opinion, and I am not pressuring you to do this. If you don't feel comfortable doing this, that's totally up to you. If you think that it's better you stay on FANDOM for whatever reason, then fine, I won't stop you. I'm just trying to relate to you here and tell you what I did to cope in hopes that it may help you as well.

I'm glad you're getting the help you need though and I do hope that things get better soon. Have a nice day.