User blog comment:Zambiealex/How to Judge a user PROPERLY/@comment-28983864-20160707123205

Leading off topic usually can resolve the conflict as it prevents the topic from happening so I would rather suggest using it to some degree if you feel you can resolve a conflict in that way.

Personally I think you should never judge anyone period, properly or not I do not think we have any right to make judgements of people at all. It is still judging at the end of the day and correct is just as bad as wrong judgement.

Also randomness for me is a quality, if you can be random and spontanous people will tend to like you more for that as you are individualistic and different towards other people. Don't be the same shell.

Although I fail to see how it is fair if your friend get's blame and you don't protect them. I feel it's more unfair as you are allowing your friend to get in trouble instead of protecting him.

Also define right thing in life, cause there are many right ways to do something and I feel judging is not a right thing in life personally.

All in all good ideas but personally just go through lie happily not judgingly.