Thread:Merrystar/@comment-3275812-20131012213518

Hi Wendy.

I'm terribly sorry to bother you. (Seriously, I am), but something has been rubbing me the wrong way (off and on) for a while; You and Danny both told me that I would be welcomed back to the Muppet wiki, if I wanted to come back. However, even if I wanted to, why would I return when I know that Scott (the co-founder) clearly doesn't like or respect me? He flat-out insulted me and he never offered me an apology. He was clearly not interested in making amends.

I am well aware that you most likely don't want to hear about this anymore, but I just wanted to share my final thoughts and respond to some of the things you told me. I will be brief. At the end of the day, I am bothered by how this whole incident was handled (especially the aftermath) I don't feel that I was taken seriously. I feel that this whole situation has been downplayed and minimized, and frankly, that annoys me. I felt like I got absolutely no sympathy.

I want to make sure you understand that the incident was never about a reverted edit. The problem started when Scott deliberately ignored my question for over a week. I was polite, I was not looking for trouble. I was more than patient. He should not have ignored my question. He should never have blocked me. The fact that it was "only three days" is irrelevant. Blocking is meant to punish contributors who break the rules. It is not supposed to be used to shut people up and hope that the problem will go away, which is exactly what he was trying to do. He called me a "pest" just because was asking questions. Admins should never resort to childish insults, no matter what the circumstances. He is supposed to set an example. Yes, I know we all make mistakes, but that does not excuse his actions. Being "grouchy" is not an excuse. I sincerely hope that you have told him that his actions were rude and uncalled for, and that he deeply offended me.

Ultimately, I find it unfair that he insulted me and got off scott-free (no pun intended.) If I had insulted him, I would have gotten punished, but he insults me, and he gets a free-pass. I just really resent the fact that Scott never offered me a public apology. It was the least he could have done. The last thing he ever said to me was an insult. I really wish that he would have apologized to me.

Those are my final thoughts. 