Thread:B1bl1kal/@comment-961279-20200903233923/@comment-961279-20200927004922

Three weeks ago, you asked if I could help you get your admin rights back on the Villains Wiki. I looked into it briefly but didn't find anything that sounded like an official discussion about it. That seemed to confirm that it came without warning. I didn't respond before because I knew it would take a lot more research before I could get a better picture of what was going on and see if I could present a case on your behalf.

I haven't done that research yet so what I've got to go on is more general but might be an indicator of why your user rights were removed. Based on what I've seen, it wouldn't be appropriate for me to ask them since it there's things you can work on to improve how you deal with people. If you could work on those, you'd have a better chance of regaining some or all of the rights you had even without me helping.

I think the "Disciplinary Reprimand" message you left for Sewaddle12 shows the sort of things that may have led to the rights being removed. I don't know the history of what led up to that, but my first impression is you're being really demanding, aggressive and hostile towards her.

Users, especially younger kids, can be annoying and a nuisance, and many of them don't know to stop even after being told to. But an admin needs to handle them in a firm and fair manner without it looking like they're trying take it out on them.

When I look at the reasons you enter when setting a block, they do provide the reasons why it was set. Maybe I'm reading more into it than is there, but it also reads like a list of crimes. With someone like Ahmedmaklad77, "sockpuppet of Ahmedmaklad77" should be more than sufficient by now. If anyone needs to know further information, they can ask. For the other admins who have been around for a while and know what the situation is, they'll look at the simpler reason and think, "Them again, got it." That's all they'd need.

On a personal level, I don't know what's going on in your life. We've never met and hasn't really talked much before this conversation. The only hint I've seen is the few times you've been upset or annoyed about receiving a message notification when you're trying to sleep or getting ready to go to bed.

If that's being such a big disruption for you, why can't you shut the speaker off on your phone, tablet or computer so you don't hear the notification? That way, you get the rest you need and you can deal with whatever it is later when you might be in a better mood.

Those are my initial/gut reactions. If you want to talk more about this, we can.