Thread:RABNerd VP/@comment-37353643-20200731020849/@comment-37353643-20200801012403

RABNerd VP wrote: I think at this point it's really meant to be implied for Bow's attraction. If you wanna put possible before attraction as a compromise, that's fine. Let's just leave it at that.

Okay, I'm gonna explain myself real quick and why I blocked you on that wiki for your tone alone. I have been admining on wiki for four years now and after awhile you don't have a lot of tolerance for certain mistakes and tones. The most I will tolerate are minor mistakes and not understanding formatting. I ban people from the shipping wiki for changing fanon to canon because if I don't they will just come back and do it non-stop.

The wiki you are asking me to unban you from is a small one where I am the only admin and is me doing a lot of fact checking. I don't/can't watch every single piece of media out there so I have to do googling for all the things that I'm not watching making sure that no one is just adding their own headcanoned characters to the wiki. I had to ban someone today for adding Li Shang to the wiki. As a result of me not watching everything ever, I will occasionally get sexualities wrong when trying to fix something and have had users call me rude and insulting things for getting it wrong. So your tone made me assume you were one of those people, especially your edit war with another user over the Rogelio page. I don't want those kind of tones on the wiki as it needs to be as welcoming as possible for others, and given how small things are it will be easier for others to find those comments and be put off from wanting to add to the wiki. So that's why I blocked you based on your tone.

However, I am not unblocking you. You followed me to two other wikis after this, which is something another user did after I blocked them on the other wiki I admin for being hateful to people who didn't think of their headcanons as canon. They followed me to three seperate wikis and called me rude and insulting things for not agreeing with them (for a show I never watched) before I had to contact someone at the wiki higherups. You doing the same thing, as well as contacting your friend to add to this is frankly, reminding me of the whole situation. It did not help and all it's done is made me upset and stressed.

Thank you for your time. It's not implied, it's just a headcanon. Bow was never romantically attracted to Sea Hawk. He admired him like a fan would an idol, and they're friends, but there's no romance there. Not even a hint of it. And claiming that there is is just denying facts, which is what you were doing over and over again and why my tone was an angry one. That's the point I was trying to get across, same as Perfuma being attracted to Huntara, Mermista being attracted to She-Ra, and Glimmer being attracted to Adora.

None of these are canon to the series, and they were not made clear by the show itself or crew members. They're just headcanons.

And I understand why you wanted to keep them, they make Bow, Glimmer, and Mermista LGBT+, because the uncited showrunner confirmation and retweets aren't enough to prove that. So you're trying to find gay romances from these characters so that it makes sense for them to be there. But they just aren't true.

I apologize for my tone, I can see it caused you a lot of distress. I was frustrated you weren't understanding my point, but I shouldn't have gotten angrier to make you.

But come on. 6 months? That's just kind of ridiculous, especially for what I did. I can assure I'm not the type of person to insult somebody for getting something wrong or the type of person to insult somebody for not agreeing with me on a show.

This person who caused you a lot of stress is not me, and while I understand the situation now is reminding you of that, you have to separate the two and make the distinction of their circumstances. Otherwise, you'll be punishing somebody severly because they remind you of someone else when those two people couldn't be more different.

Yes, I followed you to another wiki, and that's something this alledged person did as well. But I didn't follow you to the other wiki to get into an argument or insult you.

I did it because what you did wasn't fair, and I was explaining why and how. "Following someone to another wiki" is not against the rules of the Shipping Wiki.

I'm sure somebody on there has gone to someone from a different wiki and contacted them on the Shipping Wiki. It happens.

No, you blocked me for infinite because that action was the same thing a not-so-nice person did to you in the past, and the results were not good, to say the least.

You thought I was committing the same thing, so you punished me for an extremely long amount of time, even though I didn't do what that person did, nor do I have any intention to.

What I want is to have an intelligent conversation and discussion about your actions, without any toxcity. I'm even willing to put aside any conflict between us if that's what you want.

I think I made that pretty clear on the message.

I didn't say hateful things to you on the wikis I "followed you on" for not agreeing with me on a show you didn't watch.

You were basically blocking me for something I didn't do, and that just isn't fair. Even if the situations of me and that other user are similar, that doesn't mean they're the exact same and should be treated as such.