Thread:X-Mutant/@comment-36009152-20181122161511/@comment-36009152-20181126143816

Hey, with your first message the thing with wikis the ‘heart’ of who runs them isn’t really important, it’s whether they can do the role well is all that matters. Whichever management style helps the wiki function and that. Its all well and good saying other people could be better but maybe it’s nicer to focus on yourself, leave others to what they are doing. Let’s move on from how you feel about the Admins behaviour, don’t you feel it’s better to say read and improve the pages and find areas on the wiki itself you would like to add to? Taking part in what you like sounds more fun that tackling people in unconstructive arguments right?

People don’t get off the hook, if it’s problem behaviour eventually it’s caught even if you don’t hear about it. Never give up, always be better than you were yesterday.

I really don't think for a moment that you are being looked down upon. You have been allowed to return to the site by the very same Bureaucrat who issued the ban. Since they have been forgiving maybe it’s time for you to alter your views towards them and match their tone by also treating them with respect just like what you want for yourself. Move on from the past, why should people from it get a say in how your future is run? They shouldn’t, you decide your path not others.

It’s great to hear you have had many people care for you wellbeing. Them over worrying is better than not worrying at all! It’s good they have your back and that you are close with your family, friends and animals. Here we are moving on from this instance and remembering that overall you are able to return to the site rather than be blocked indefinitely which is excellent all round!

No need to apologize, a third party mediator to help resolve this for everyone is always helpful, and with the outcome it seems to have worked. With the Bureaucrat you know its not always about receiving something in return. Think it would be a great mark of character for you to apologize for your comments to the Bureaucrat? No need to expect them to even comment, what’s important is it shows your maturity and willingness to make amends. That would make a much nicer impression and shows you're willing to progress forwards.