Thread:X-Mutant/@comment-36009152-20181122161511/@comment-36009152-20181203140212

Hey, let’s see… do you feel that you have been lied to at some point here? It would be good for you to point out since I'm not sure where one could even be. Not to mention that I don’t see how one could even lie in these messages which are meant to help you overcome a ban and move forward constructively. Let’s also remember that you are better than using swear words. I have replied to each of your messages in detail taking care to address each of your points, rest assured that I have been paying attention to everything you have been saying.

Have we not already established that its good to be truthful? Its not “sugar coating things with bs” its called being polite and well mannered. Aw, look lets remember to remain calm, there’s no scary side here at all. Violence isn’t a good answer, and it won’t get better behaviour from other people, whatever better behaviour you had in mind. Keep it cool and measured, you can do this!

Forgive me, I was under the impression that you didn’t mean your thanks since you have said that you were wondering if you should have said them or if I deserve them for helping you. I believe you when you say you truly mean them, like when I went to such lengths to help you with the ban and here, so good news we can put that behind us since that is resolved. That’s good progress and moving on indeed.

I'm sure your family would love me and be thankful and appreciative that I have helped you here, we would be best friends! See I was right they are nice since they are protective of you. Since that’s clear and that they pose no problem here, in myself and your family would get along really well, we can also close the chapter on that and move onto another more interesting things.

That is excellent to hear that you believe in being nice. If thanks were wnated I'm not sure how else I would go about getting it. My messages with the admin to help you, being patient and replying here to help you, saying that I would be available if you required help in the future, do I not deserve it do you feel? Ah, it does seem you have a different definition of ‘sugar coating’ that keeps coming up. In fact outsiders could make the observation you are gathering a list of perceived ‘negatives’ to justify saying the things you say, then feeling self righteous about it? Like you are kind of saying “There’s a negative, there’s another! This person lies, they don’t deserve my thanks, they’re not okay to be around me in my book” and you are saying stuff like that to me, someone who has helped you at every turn.

There is also a recurring issue where you seem to think “nonsense reason + made up reason = a horrible thing to say, don’t like this person” with the whole “It means that you believe lying is ok.” Lying isn’t even relevant here, there’s not been any way that a lie could have been added, and do I really need to say that I believe lying is wrong? No need for any of that, remember about focusing on the positive, seeing the best in people and like Fandom says always assuming good faith rather than trying to see negatives where there are none. Even if there were unitentional negatives, the positives overcome them

It’s all right, there’s no ‘chewing’ out haha, I just want to make sure we are are clear and give you peace of mind since there appears to be on-going issues. Though again it does beg the question why you feel the need to want to chew me out since I am the only person who has helped you here. You mentioned the other person who added to the conversation, they are long gone, and has anyone else made the effort to be here for you?

It would have been sensible for you to move on at any point, and you may still do that now of course. Is the one word ‘homophobia’ it’s not really about being a word of the devil whatever that is. It is simply not acceptable to be prejudiced against any people, we treat all people the same and with kindness, which you of course know and do. If people are going to be rude about certain people, better people will take the sides of (in this case) LGBT+ people since that is the nice world we would want to create and live in for everyone. I myself was pointing out the ban reason, I have said I don’t think you’re homophobic, just that sometimes assumptions, misinterpretations and the like are made in comments. Calling someone racist if they say racist things is not name calling or fighting words, you are not under attack. If the bureaucrat deemed your comments homophobic they are not fighting words to attack you, it’s to challenge you to say better non prejudiced things instead. I doubt you would like it if someone said prejudiced things concerning your sexuality and you also wouldn’t think very highly of someone who defined themselves with their awful conduct like saying said prejudiced remarks. But we have already addressed this in messages above, and since everything’s been sorted out and we know we are better than saying prejudiced things we can move on, right?

Honestly I thought the matter was ended some time ago! If you would like to ‘bury the hatchet’


 * No more inventing things people have said.


 * No more “I’ll twist these words here and here therefore this person is horrible, a liar and does not deserve my time I am so much better than them.”


 * No more swearing or anger.


 * Yes do move on from matters that don’t lead anywhere productive – how did you want this conversation to end? I wanted it to end with you being happy and able to return to the wikis, which you are able to do!


 * Yes, do thank you for people’s time, a simple “thank you have a nice day” is much better then endless messages that seem to spiral further downwards and don’t lead anywhere delightful.

In times like these remember to ask yourself, does this lead anywhere? How do I want this to end? Do I really want to spend time on this, or do I want to be somewhere I really like? That is fantastic that you are not banned from the Red Dead Wiki, doesn't it sound lovely for you to go there?
 * Yes do remember to remain your nice a pleasant self, you have a wonderful family, animals like you, you are very fortunate!