Thread:SleepyKitty0/@comment-33560844-20190721150055/@comment-38879211-20190722104619

I appreciate that you took the time to read through. I was a bit emotional when I originally posted all that stuff to my wall, so I'm not sure how clear my thoughts were..

I wouldn't say the source editor made it "harder" to do the edit summaries, but more that the way it's laid out makes it easy to overlook, such that one might even overlook its importance (at least that's how it was for me). I think I eventually got fairly consistent at filling that out, but it did take me awhile to first see its value and then get into the habit. The main reason I mentioned it was because I felt she took an unnecessarily negative approach in the way she pointed it out, and a statement she made didn't even make sense for someone using the source editor (with default settings), so I wanted to point out the difference. Thanks for the info tho.

BTW, I've never really had a problem with you. I usually find you considerate and helpful. The first time you removed anything of mine (technically I think it was deleting an image I uploaded), you immediately posted on my wall to make sure I understood what was happening. I appreciate that and I feel that is the ideal way of handling such a situation. Unfortunately, that didn't happen last time (tho I suppose it's debatable if it would've prevented any problems). I felt a lot of things were grossly mishandled, from start to aftermath. I considered the way she did/worded things could've been a one-time deal so I looked at her history, but I just found more of the same negativity. I understand that you may not view her words/actions as negatively as I do (or you may even feel that I'm the negative factor here) and I'm not trying to convince you otherwise, but the fact still remains that I find her destructive, and even if she never interacts with me directly ever again, I can't watch her treat others that way, and I can't be a part of a community that condones it.

A lot (tho not all) of the issues I have a problem with are covered here: Help:Assuming_good_faith. There are several instances where I feel these guidelines weren't followed but should've been.

Anyway, thanks for the well wishes. I wish you the best as well.