User:Qwqwo

He/him, they/them, ze/zir, zey/zem, and some other neos

Neurodivergent (ADHD diagnosis) panromantic, omnisexual, ambiamourus, gender is annoying to describe but basically it's agender, genderqueer, and and non-binary all stacked up in a trenchcoat but it's easier to just call it non-binary. (This only applies to Ari, the host)

Possibly a system, no diagnosis though.

 DNI list (more can and probably will be added): 


 * Homophobes
 * Transphobes
 * Other lgbtq-phobes (a/acephobes, polyphobes (hate of polyamourus, ambiamourus, etc not the phobia of many things)
 * fakeclaimers (of  any  mental/physical illness or disorder. Not just systems.
 * Endo systems
 * Endo-supporting systems
 * People who ship people who have stated they are uncomfortable with it or have not made a statement on it
 * The toxic part of any fandom
 * Maps/no-maps
 * Any member of poppytwt
 * People who sexualize/fetishize littles/age regression (not an age-regresser, just think it shouldn't be sexualized/fetishized because it is an actual coping mechanism
 * People who fetishize the lgbtq+

 System stuff: 


 * 11-12 alters
 * I (the host, Ari) will mainly be the one active on this account
 * endo systems (and endo-friendly systems) and antis dni. If you cannot remember your trauma, that is fine. Just don't call yourself an endo.
 * collective pronouns are they/them

List of alters (Who were okay with being listed) :


 * Ari (host, gatekeeper)
 * Cerb (Role-unknown)
 * Crow (Protector, gatekeeper)
 * Dove (Traumaholder)
 * Finch (Caretaker)
 * Hawk (Persecutor)
 * Jay (Role unknown)
 * Raven (Traumaholder)
 * Robin (Protector)
 * Thrush (Traumaholder [?])
 * Minos (Role-unknown)

System FAQ:


 * What's your trauma?

None of your business.


 * What are your triggers?

I'm not telling a bunch of strangers on the internet that.


 * What's an endo system?

An endo "system" is a system without trauma. You need trauma to have DID/OSDD, however, if you cannot remember your trauma, that is different. Your brain has a tendency to block out traumatic memories. You still shouldn't call yourself an endo, it is harmful to the DID/OSDD community.


 * You aren't a real system

And that's not a real question.


 * What's a host?

Some people use it to label the "original" alter/personality. The correct term for that is the "core". The host is also known as an alter that fronts the most. The definition depends on the system/alter.


 * Can I meet your other alters?

That is entirely up to them and they will not front just for your entertainment. We are not a circus putting on a show for you to watch.


 * Can [alters name] front?

No, do not ask this. It is rude and inconsiderate.


 * Can I ask questions about DID or OSDD/Can I ask about your experiences with being a system?

Sure! We wont be as aggressive as we were in some of the answers in this FAQ.


 * Can I vent to you?

Ask first but we probably won't mind!


 * Is being a system fun?

No, even though my headmates are great I wish I was a singlet.


 * Can you choose your alters?

No. They form on their own. They may take after a character (real, fictional, or both.) or be a new person. They can be other things too (personifications, objects, animals, etc [ personifications and animals would fall under introject {the catagory that fictive and factives are in}]).


 * You have to be 18 to be diagnosed.

Did (haha get it? DID? I'm not funny) you not see what I said to the other fakeclaimer? Also alters don't just appear the moment you turn 18. Also I said I Might be a system. Implying that I didn't have a diagnosis.


 * People with systems don't know they have them

Then how do you know for sure you're a singlet?


 * How do you communicate with your alters/headmates?

When I'm not fronting, we talk in headspace. When I am fronting, we talk in co-con.


 * What is co-con?

It stands for co-conscious. It's when an alter is kind of fronting with you but not controlling the body, not to be confused with co-fronting which is when two or more alters front and are controlling the body. These definitions can vary based on the system.

 My hobbies: 


 * Any form of art, I don't like all of them but I'm will to give them all a try
 * Coding (occasionally, not really a consistent thing.)
 * Researching psychology, not much of a hobby but more of my main interest in life.
 * Playing games, video games, card games, board games, a little bit of everything I guess.
 * Writing, I don't do it often and I probably won't share any of my writings.