Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-23523342-20151226132850/@comment-5454372-20151229021559

If someone's creating a wiki with content that breaches the ToU (including things along the lines of harrassment, slander, or as a means for unwanted contact), then you can report it via Special:Contact from that wiki, linking to edits that are examples of said issues or ToU breaches. If said edits are deleted, then simply link to the relevant page stating that the offending edits were deleted if you can't access the edit log, or use Special:RecentChanges to find out what the names of the deleted pages were if their URLs are hard to remember.

Beyond that, while I understand you two have your differences, I'm not here to take sides. If the ToU isn't being breached, then a user is free to add whatever content they'd like to a wiki. If there's a breach, then report it to staff -- beyond giving (hopefully) applicable advice, I don't believe it'd be helpful for a third-party user like myself to be getting involved or choosing sides.