User blog comment:Nachtide/Wikian Chat Commandments by Nachtide/@comment-24055022-20160125051751

I agree with most of things you said.

Just drop the whole mini-modding thing and learn the difference between that and being a gentle reminder.

Yeah, I know the feeling.

Accept people for their opinions and respect them.

You have no idea how hard this is for me. Just like you, I struggle with it a lot. It seems like every single time I'm on chat (especially one in particular), there is always something that is mentioned, so I post my opinion on it (depending on what it is), and I always feel attacked the very moment I do and get very defensive. Lately, I've been deciding if I should just stop going on any chat ever again because of this. Sometimes, the best and probably the most mature thing to do about it is to just say "Let's just agree to disagree and move on to something else."

Avoid sensitive topics in main chats!

Yes, and if someone posts something that is sensitive to you, sometimes it's just best not to say anything for the reasons I mentioned above and just scream it at your computer screen.

Just be kind to each-other!

That is never easy to do.