Thread:Jdogno7/@comment-1409530-20191027101500/@comment-1409530-20191028034439

Love Robin wrote: Life is not fair. We are not always given clear and concise reasons why things happen to us, much less a chance to explain why or our side of things.

For example, being fired from a job. Sometimes it's just a short reason, like, "not a good fit" and no deeper, clearer, concise reasons why. And if we continue going back to ask for better reasons, we're trespassing. If we continue calling, we're harassing. If we show up places they are, we're stalking. Police, courts, and restraining orders might be involved.

That's life. This. This is nothing. "Life is not fair.": True. But that doesn't mean it has to be that way. Forgive my language at this point but just because shit happens does not mean that shit should happen.

"We are not always given clear and concise reasons why things happen to us, much less a chance to explain why or our side of things.": The occurence of such does not help improve things in the slightest.

"For example, being fired from a job.": Are there not provisions in place to deal with unfair dismissal?

"Sometimes it's just a short reason, like, "not a good fit" and no deeper, clearer, concise reasons why.": A reason like that could mean anything.

"And if we continue going back to ask for better reasons, we're trespassing.": Firing someone means banishing them from their (former) place of work forever?

"If we continue calling, we're harassing.": Calling in what sense? To say, how are you calling or by what methods are you calling? What if you need to explain to someone why you had to leave your former job and you can't because you don't even know why you lost it (your job)?

"If we show up places they are, we're stalking.": It is considered stalking to ask someone to explain why they did something hurtful to you?

"Police, courts, and restraining orders might be involved.": I admit I am being cynical at this point but far too often those institutions seem so help only the big man or woman i.e. big man/big woman but not the little guy or girl i.e. little guy/little girl.

"That's life.": Indeed.

"This is nothing.": Has anything like this ever happened to you ever? Forgive me if you have told me before and I have forgotten.