Thread:X-Mutant/@comment-36009152-20181122161511/@comment-36009152-20181126161021

Though remember it’s about showing that you yourself are moving forward by way of apology, never mind what others do.

They care about you of course which is nice. You don’t need to be concerned that people can say rude things to you people can say and do whatever they want, see if you care. Besides if people are rude their bad behaviour defines them not the person they are trying to insult. A simple “why not” for the phone, “I’ll get my popcorn go sit down” “the police are there to maintain the law and I’m not a lawbreaker so it’s no bother to me” “thank you for you concern, I’ve got this” can’t go wrong. Though of course appreciate they have got your back, they are only concerned for you.

It would be good to show your parents these messages, it’s not really a trust thing they and anyone can see these discussions have good intent and have helped resolve the issue you are in, if you deem them helpful advice all the better. It would also demonstrate you are capable of overcoming situations like the ban issue and making amends with the Bureaucrat. If you show that you are capable of getting your own popcorn and being responsible with your phone it could put their minds at rest since fretting never really achieves anything.

It is no problem of course if you would like to speak again if you need help. Though like your parents I would like to see that you could dismiss and overcome issues that come your way by yourself since you are more than capable of doing this. Hearing that you managed to solve a tricky scenario if it even was one. As for the positive adaption, this is suggestion for the apology for the Bureaucrat:

“I am sorry for the bad comments I made on the Zootopia wiki. They are not a reflection of me as a person and now that I see how they were wrong and unhelpful I would like to put them in the past and move forward. I would like to take part constructively with the wiki. If I feel there are arguments ready to brew I’ll walk away and focus on what matters namely supporting the article pages themselves. I’m here to enjoy supporting this series.”

That would show learning from mistakes and moving on positively. It shows you are mature and you realise the misunderstandings aren’t even worth it, you’re just there to enjoy the wikis. Being the bigger person and walking away from needless strife because you deserve better. Don’t feel obliged to untangle knots; again you do what you enjoy. And of course dedicating time to supporting what you love is time well spent! That’s one suggestion though of course it’s up to you how you move forward here and elsewhere, all the best!