User:Secret and Sassy

Here's my story about how this Social Worker ended up here with my own business having the time of my life, and meeting the most amazing people. (And no this isnt one of those things wherebyou get people to join lol..yuck) Lol. I just saw a need and decided to fill it, and here is what happened❣️

My passion over the last few years has shifted, I saw a need and decided to fill it.

Over and over again I would go to the mall for some "retail therapy" as many of us tend to do.. and all too often I would find I wasn't the only one leaving without a purchase. The only thing we managed to take away from this experience was lowered self esteem, and an even heavier sense of sadness.

At the time I was overweight (as many of us are) and it takes all the confidence you can muster to walk into a store like Victoria Secret.... but after 2 ..or maybe 3 laps outside the door I made my way inside - repeating that I deserved to feel sexy and beautiful too and assuring myself that a knew piece of sexy lingerie is just want I needed to get out of my funk!!

My size at the time was XL and when I asked for some help finding something sexy in my size I was told quite matter of factly that nothing in this store would fit me properly.

Shocked and embarrassed I grabbed the first XL item and ran to the fitting rooms where I sat and cried for that seemed to be forever.

If I hadn't overheard this young woman on her cell phone crying to her friend in the changeroom beside me I may still be crying in that change room as we speak.

Listening to this young woman cry about how she had just been treated and been made to feel in the majority of ladies stores really got me fired up. I heard her telling her friend that she pays 3 times as much to shop at MXM (a plus size store) where she was able to buy clothes XXS which fit her size XL body. She felt the extra cost was worth it to her as she was never made to feel badly about her weight or shape, her biggest issue is that she has "sized out" of the store and it being a plus size store they don't carry anything that would fit her anymore, yet she was still "too big" for the sexy young average size stores where she was made to feel horrible.

Many of us ladies have left the changerooms in tears for one reason or another and I wanted to put an end to this.

It seemed our only choices were to search every sexy and intimidating store we could find in the hopes of finding that one piece that just happens to fit ( which rarely happens) or head over to a plus size store where the choices there tend to be low quality/grandma type clothing or you can hit the jackpot with plus size stores like MXM, Additionelle, or Jane but be prepared to spend A FORTUNE!! I paid $89.99 for a fitted V neck black T shirt once there, all because it fit me perfectly and I didn't feel horrible in their store.

So I got home and started to do my research. I found merchants that these stores use and over the course of many months I began a relationship with people worldwide who believed in bringing clothing, lingerie, swimsuits, and all things sexy to women of ALL shapes and Sizes, and not just that but to bring them these gorgeous clothes that will fit size xxs to 6XL and FOR AMAZING PRICES!!!

Now that I wear a size medium it's still near impossible for me to find a high quality Corset for under $150 and for plus size ladies you can guarantee you will be paying somewhere around $300 for something durable and attractive!!

Not anymore! I met with some girlfriends and we decided we were going to cut out the judgemental middle men and find all the very best in sexy clothes, as well as comfortable YET stylish everyday wear for every woman!!

It wasn't long before our men came knocking and said "he what about us" so we now have items for everyone 18+

Come check out Secret and Sassy or PM us for some information.

(We also love educating and supplying people with the beat quality adult toys for prices you can afford!

We have it all - just ask!!

We are very LGBTQ+ ♡

and we have so many amazing items coming in daily. Stop in and say hi 👋

Cheers Friends xox